Education
and Poverty in Poland
I had success speaking with a parent in our Head
Start Program. Her name is Monika
Kulwikowski. She is a child care
provider for children zero to three with a partnering agency. Her mother-in-law is a director of a
kindergarten in Poland. I really enjoyed
speaking with her. She has been very
open about life in Poland.
Poland has a social system. Mothers generally stay at home until the
children are at least six months old. If
they are fortunate enough to have a job, they go to work for 18 hours a
day. The grandparents are responsible
for raising the child until it is time to go to school. If they do not have family living near them,
parents can send their children to “kindergarten” at age 2 or 3 if they have
the income to do so. The care in these
centers is not like it is in America. “There
is one teacher and 20 children. If the
children cry, the workers do not try to work with the child. They just ignore them. There is no respect for the child and their
feelings” (Monika Kulwikowski, personal communication, May 16, 2012). Monika’s mother-in-law is the director of a “kindergarten”. Because her center is well-run, the student
teacher ratio is 15 to one. Most child
care providers in Poland are more like drill sergeants shouting out directions.
The job market is very competitive to people try to
get as much education as they can in order to compete.
There are fewer children now in Poland than there
used to be. Adults cannot afford to have
the children. If families need help,
they must rely on the good will of people they meet or go to the Catholic
Church to get help. If you don’t have a
husband or family around, you will most certainly live in poverty. Many times families have to live together
just to make ends meet. Because the
Catholic faith is such an integral part of society in general, if you are a
woman, you are expected to have a husband.
“If you do not have a husband, it is as though you do not exist at all. If you try to leave your husband, the
government will take your child from you.
You should not have a child if you cannot keep your husband (Monika
Kulwikowski, personal communication, May 16, 2012).
Poverty is different in different parts of the
world. The basic issues of poverty in
the United States are also found in Williamsburg, Virginia. In the United States there are pockets of
extreme poverty. In other areas of the
world, extreme poverty can represent the majority of the population. Regardless of where we live and/or work,
poverty is something we should work together to eradicate. There are agencies worldwide that work to
that end. It will take those with more
to help those with less. We can all do
something. Our church has two Stop
Hunger Now campaigns each year. The
United Methodist Church has gleaning events around the country throughout the
year. Of course, there are Food Banks in
most, if not all, major cities. Meals on
Wheels and transportation services in cities help the elderly. In the United States the top one percent of
the wealthy have seen a growth of 256% while the middle class has only seen a
growth of 21% and the poor 11% (Cauthen & Fass, 2009). Something needs to change. In my mind, we need to empower the families
so that they have the resources to help themselves. Each of us needs to do our part to advocate
for the children and their families.
References
Cauthen N. K., &
Fass, S. (2009). 10 important questions about
child poverty and family
economic hardship. Retrieved from National Center for Children in
Poverty (NCCP)
Dear Carol,
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot for your post. It was so interesting to learn those facts about Poland. It is so sad to hear that the government takes away children from their mothers because she is separated from her husband and women get judged for being single as opposed to being looked after or treated as an individual like anyone else. Did your contact mention if any changes are happening in the situation or any help is being offered from outside of Poland? What happens to women who lose their husbands or get divorced? who looks after their children when they are taken away? I am very much interested to do a research to find out about it more. Would it be possible to ask your contact if she can introduce us to some good resources?
Many thanks for your post,
Maryam
Carol,
ReplyDeleteI found your post so interesting. It is upsetting to hear how women are regarded, and that they are 'nothing' without a man.
I was confused initially, as I was thinking of Sweden. I posted back in January about Births in Sweden. This country is so supportive of mothers, and provide long materinity leaves in order to allow for healthy development. Switzerland also has maternity leave for fathers aswell!